Still, it would have been nice to see some form of updated thinking from the author. Inside, discover how to: More than a simple sex manual, this slim volume condenses vast amounts of information into short, practical techniques. That's why they recommended it. Overall an interesting read, but I was struck throughout how very heteronormative it was. There are more intricate books out there on the subject. Every part referred to the "man" and the "woman" in the relationship. Goodreads reviews Your dreams of sexual pleasure are about to come true. From your first kiss to sexual ecstasy, Mabel Iam guides you along the path to an intense pleasure that only love and sex can bring. Anyway, the book includes methods and teachings from Tao, Tantra, and the Kama Sutra that are meant to make each partner a better lover to the other. There are also thought exercises and visualizations on how to find your ideal lover and make yourself a more confident partner. A bestseller around the world, "Sex and the Perfect Lover" has become the definitive guide to improving your sexual experience. Learn and develop sexual magnetism Become an irresistible, fascinating, unforgettable lover Overcome sexual blocks and inhibitions Achieve multiple orgasms Stimulate a woman's G-spot Practice Kama Sutra techniques with the help of amazing illustrations and personal tips from the author Make your relationship sacred and feel inner divinity while making love Find and attract your soul mate This book will become your eternal companion and trusted adviser -- all of your needs and doubts about eroticism will be eased by Iam's tried-and-true advice. But for a light read, it's ok. This was not a critique of anything I've done, because we haven't done anything. Show more Show less Reviews "Accessible. Of course, this makes sense considering the author's preferences and the advice mostly derives from ancient texts that often discount any other form of partnership.