Practice the technique in order to build your sexual stamina The Technique is a phrase that I coined regarding the most effective way to masturbate in order to help you last longer in bed. Edging is the process of riding your sexual arousal wave on the higher end of the spectrum. The results are so apparent, that I wish I could show people where I started out. Figure out what your ideal sex life looks like Most people go their entire lives without ever slowing down to think about what, exactly, their ideal sex life looks like. Also, if you want more ideas on how to extend your foreplay and really bring your partner into her body, check out my article on Slow Sex 2. Sexual tension and a lot of sexual pleasure is largely centred around being in a state of anticipation. Just kiss sometimes Remember when you were in high school and you would make out for hours, and that would be the whole point? Construct a plan for having sex, he suggests: So today, I decided to do a best-of-the-best collection of my fifty sex tips for men. Feeling attractive, desirable, and uniquely beautiful is highly erotic. Take out the trash. Avoid her genitals for as long as possible during foreplay Our brains have two kinds of pleasure systems… consummatory pleasure, an anticipatory pleasure. Long story short, limit your exposure to porn, if not eliminate it from your life all together, in order to have the strongest erections and healthiest sex life possible. No matter how proficient you think you are, every now and then, you could use a little boost to improve your sex life and satisfy your partner. Abstinence as a sex tip? This tip is more about self-acceptance and confidence than it is about committing yourself to working out like a madman in the gym for preparation.