I like getting head and guys just seem to be better at it than girls because they have the package, I guess you could say. When you look at a female's body, there is something about the curvature of it, and I don't know. According to John -- who has been with no more than five men -- part of why he enjoys hooking up with other men is the idea that it is something he isn't supposed to do. Unfortunately, society limits sexual expression by placing people in boxes, essentially stereotyping the sex roles that are considered 'inappropriate' and 'appropriate' in culture. That can feel threatening," explains Reynolds. We need to move away from a binary mode of thinking and acknowledge that whatever people do in their bedrooms is their business, as long as there's explicit consent involved," said Reynolds. Reynolds is a doctoral candidate at the University of Minnesota who researches online media and sexuality. You want to feel wanted, and why not feel wanted and get amazing head? What we can say based on what we know so far, is that sexuality is a unique trait that differs, sometimes greatly, from one individual to another. Still, some would ask how can they be straight if they are having sex -- and I don't mean just intercourse, I am counting everything from a hand job to tossing salad and beyond -- with other men? Dispute this all you want, make claims of biblical proportions, but it is a well documented fact that man-on-man sex is not new. Some would argue it is. So why have the more recent generations found a need to compartmentalize into neat, tidy little boxes, those who are anything other than heterosexual? In a discussion on The Huffington Post, one Canadian man talked about how he is a straight man who enjoys sex with other men. This is the belief that men must be hyper-masculine, domineering, without emotion and avoid any tinge of femininity.